Too Close for Comfort

Why well-meaning decisions need better boundaries (and a forecast).

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"There’s no buffer zone!" - Jerry

TL;DR

We’re back after a short pause to enjoy the holiday week (and avoid any George-style spirals).

This week, Jerry’s regretful apartment offer reminds us that growth decisions (no matter how well-intentioned) need structure, planning, and strong boundaries. Otherwise, you’re just handing out spare keys to chaos.

Previously on Seinfeld

In The Apartment (Episode 10), Jerry hears of a vacant unit in his building, and on impulse, tells Elaine she should move in. It sounds like the perfect setup: familiar neighbors, closer friendship, more convenience. But the second she’s interested, he spirals.

What about his dating life? What about privacy? What about the awkward run-ins when he just wants to grab his mail?

Meanwhile, George puts on a wedding ring to run a social experiment. As always, the theory is sound. The execution? Not so much.

This episode is about overstepping… offering more than you’re ready to support… and learning the hard way that intentions aren’t strategy.

Yada Yada Insight

Boundaries build better businesses.

We’ve seen this before in Stake It to Make It: Business Lessons from ‘The Stakeout’, where identity and intention collide. And again in Cut the Cord: When 'The Ex-Girlfriend' Becomes Your Business Playbook, where guilt clouds judgment. And now, The Apartment, where good intentions get operationally messy.

Here, Jerry skips the planning and jumps straight to the pitch.

  • Founders who hire friends without role clarity

  • Startups that expand before they stabilize

  • Operators who take on new clients without cash flow forecasting

These are “Elaine moves” —> they sound smart in the moment, but they’ll crash your system if you’re not ready.

Like Jerry, you’ll regret the timing, structure, and lack of buffer.

Unlocking the Vault

This episode nails a trap we call the “False Fit Fallacy”: when something appears ideal (on paper, in conversation, or during happy hour) but doesn’t actually align with your business model or strategic plan.

We saw a version of this in Scarcity, Strategy, and the Illusion of Opportunity: Lessons from 'The Robbery'… remember when everyone scrambled to move after one bad day? This is that again, but with tighter square footage and higher emotional rent.

Here’s how it shows up in real life:

What’s missing?

A model. A roadmap. A reality check.

If you don’t map out what success looks like, you’ll keep saying yes to things that look good and feel bad.

Meme of the Week

When you pitch an idea without modeling the downside… and it gets approved. 👇

What’s the Deal?

Growth without boundaries is like moving in without checking the lease.

If you’re scaling your business, adding services, or hiring key roles, but don’t have the financial systems or operational support to match, it’s drift.

At Yada Yada Advisory, we help businesses:

  • Establish clear boundaries between “now” and “not yet”

  • Use financial forecasting to scope opportunities realistically

  • Build operational resilience before things go sideways

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